Have I been conned by Karen Feagin Dudin?

This post is LONG overdue (and very long!) and I first want to appologize to all of my fellow doll artists that I have come to know and love.  I let you down by not giving warning of this buyer sooner.   

My name came up in the conversations regarding a recent situation between another doll artist and Karen Dudin which prompted me to "come clean".

My story began in March of 2011.  I thought it was just an isolated case with just me and I decided to let it slide at that time. Unfortunately,  I have come to find out that it was not an isolated case as other artists have had situations and have been affected by this buyer.  

The best way to tell my story is to share the emails between the buyer, Karen Feagin Dudin and I.  I won't be posting the mumbo-jumbo of the email addresses and all that, just the dates and the actual emails so that they are easy to read.  They have not been edited in any way, I've not left any of them out and they will be in chronological order.

I decided to present it this way simply to show the conning nature of this client and to put to rest the statement that she is claiming that she asked me to take a doll back and refund her due to her sister being very ill.   But that is not the entire story.  She has left out how she began to ask me to take the doll back and refund her.  

The doll in question is Josiah, an Angela Harris prototype "Jenna" sculpt to which Karen Dudin saw in person at IDEX 2011 and later purchased via my website:

Here is a copy of the PayPal transaction, leaving out the buyers address as I don't think that is necessary to reveal:

Shipping address - confirmed Karen Dudin United States

Shipping details You haven’t added any shipping details.

Description	Unit price	Qty	Amount
Josiah Reborn Baby Doll Price with INSURED shipping: With US shipping	$838.00 USD	1	$838.00 USD

And now the emails starting with my first response to her purchase.  I will make a few comments at the end of all of the emails:

3/4/11

Good Morning Karen!
What a pleasant surprise to open up my email this morning and find that Josiah has found a mommy!  Thank you and bless you! 

I am thrilled that Josiah will be joining your other beautiful babies~what an honor.  I will do my best to have him ready for the post lady to pick up tomorrow morning, (it's my day off and our son is coming into town from California) but if I can't get him ready, he will be on the way on Monday for sure.  I will let you know when he leaves here.

Thank you again and many hugs,
Debbie

3/4/11

It will be an honor to have one of your babies!  He is adorable and, so realistic looking, and that gorgeous hair!  One of my favorite names is Josiah! I love all Biblical names. How do you ship your babies? I prefer USPS Priority Mail. It takes only 3 days and, the truck arrives early in the morning. Normally, It wouldn't matter but, we are having 14 people over for a traditional  pre-Lenten meal next Friday and, it would be wonderful to have Josiah here.

Have a wonderful day off and, enjoy you visit with your son!

Hugs~Karen

 

3/4/11

 Hi Karen,
Thank you    I think he will make you very happy.  I also love Biblical names. 

I ship USPS Priority with full insurance.  OH...that means I HAVE to take him to the PO on Monday as I can't get full insurance on line. (Oops, little brain bubble~the other dolls I need to ship are within the insurance limits online so I am printing their postage from home and having the post lady pick them up, but that won't work for Josiah)  Will that be okay?  I know I won't make it to the PO today.  He should be there on Wednesday. 

Sounds like you are going to have a houseful!  That is wonderful.

Have a wonderful weekend!

3/4/11

Hi Debbie, Sounds good. Can't wait to hold the little man

Have a good weekend too! Karen

3/7/11

Hi Karen,
Little boy Josiah is on his way!  His Insurance # is VH 694 343 895 US  This is not tracking but I can track him if I go to the PO with this number (you can as well but if there is a problem I will surely do it.  I've not had a problem in 6 yrs so I'm not worried.)

Please let me know when he arrives and what you think of him
Hugs~

--
Debbie
They Never Grow Up Nursery
    Where babies are babies...Forever!

3/7/11

Hi Debbie,

I am glad that baby Josiah is on his way. I hope that he will get her before or on Friday!  I will let you know as soon as I have him in my arms!

Hugs~Karen

3/7/11

Hi Karen,
I am sure he will be there Wednesday or Thursday...but he should arrive Wednesday.
Hugs

 

3/8/11

Hi Debbie,

Thank You for letting me know. I can't believe that I am getting this little guy. I am so excited! He just captured my heart when I saw his pictures. Can't wait to meet him in person! I will for sure let you know as soon as he arrives. Oh...The Mohair that I bought from you was wonderful! I've rooted one baby with it and, I will be starting another today. This will be my third reborn. The painting, I have down to a science but, the rooting I still need to work at. The two that I've done look really good but, I want this one to look great!  I am using a 40g 3 barbed needle. I am working on Kaya now.

Hugs~Karen

3/9/11

Hi Debbie,

I received baby Josiah a few minutes ago. I have to honestly tell you that, I am extremely disappointed with him. I was expecting so much better for a baby costing over $800.00. My daughter was here when he arrived and, she too did not think he is nearly as nice as some of my other reborns costing as much or even less.

sadly,

Karen 

Hello Karen,
I am very sorry to hear that you are disappointed with sweet Josiah.  What specifically is it that you are unhappy with about him?
Warm hugs,
Debbie

Hi Debbie,

He is nothing like I imagined him to be. He looks nothing like the pictures that I saw of him. The way that he is painted does not add to any kind of realism. Oh well, I took a chance on him. I just cannot love a reborn like that. I will see if I can sell him to someone on DF. Maybe, I can recoupe some of my money back that I paid for him. 

Karen

Hi Karen,
I am sorry that you are disappointed.  I provided large, very accurate, clear pictures of Josiah.

You are my first disappointed customer in the 6+ years I've been reborning. 

You are, of course, free to sell him if you choose to do so.  I'm sure he'll find a good home where he is loved.

When you advertise him, please remember that he is one of only 3 of that kit worldwide.  Production of the kit never went beyond the three prototypes, of which he is one.

Feel free to have your buyers inquire of me about him if they would like, I'd be happy to answer any questions they have. 
   
Hugs,
Debbie

3/10/11

Hi Debbie,

I am sorry too but, he looked much different in the pictures. I never would have bought him if I knew he would look the way that he does.

That is a lot of money for a reborn that looks nothing like a real baby.

I took a chance on him, believing that he was going to be a beautiful realistic looking baby and he looks like an ordinary play doll. I showed him to several people and, they all agreed that he was not nearly in the same category as any of my other reborns.

I know that I am going to take a huge loss in trying to sell him if, he even sells at all. I have never sold a reborn on ebay and, I hear that resells never do well. I would not even know how to advertise him. I am thinking that maybe, DF may be a better way to go. People know who you are and, how you reborn your dolls. They also know a lot about the different kits. I just wanted a new baby that I was truly happy with. My heart broke when I opened the box yesterday afternoon after seeing him. Leo was also very unhappy when he saw him. If, I don't sell him, it is an expensive lesson learned and, I know of a 9 year old girl who would be very happy to receive him as an Easter gift. Maybe, all is not lost and, I can sell one of my custom made dolls that might give me a better chance of making my money back.

Enjoy your time away this weekend~Karen 

3/12/11

Hi Debbie,

 I just received the mohair and, it is gorgeous as usual! I've used it on two reborns now and they look great.

I know that you are probably going to say no but, I am going to ask anyway. Would you please consider taking baby Josiah back, so he can find a good home with someone who really loves him.

I cannot deal with ebay and, my only other choice is to give him away to a little girl. I am afraid at that age, she would not understand how special these dolls are and not treat him properly.

I have no doubt that you would be able to find a good mommy for him who can really love him. I am asking you from the bottom of my heart to please consider this. I will be waiting for your reply.

Hugs~Karen

3/17/11

Hello Karen,
I'm sorry it took me so long to respond.  I've been in and out of town for the last 6 days and we've had a death in the family on top of it all.

So happy to hear that the mohair arrived and that you are happy with it. 

Karen, I typically don't accept returns for many reasons but I do consider on a case by case basis.    I would first rather start with me helping you sell him by posting some pictures up for you on your Doll Fan post.  What do you think of that? 

Let me know,
Hugs
Debbie

Hi Debbie,

Someone on Doll Fan put up a link for me so that they could see him on your blog. It's been quite a while now and it seems that no one is interested. Could you please bend your heart in my case and take him back?

I didn't want to get into personal problems but, my twin sister is quite Ill and, I have to fly to Vermont in two weeks to be with her. She is also is severe financial distress and, I want to be able to help her some. There is a lot more to her problems and, the refund for Josiah would be a Godsend.

I am so very sorry for your loss.

Hugs~Karen

Hi Karen,
Yes I saw that link and thanked Lana for being so kind to help out, but links on forums simply do not work to sell dolls.  People want to see the doll the moment they open up the post.  I will post some pictures there for you.  You will need to go back to the post and edit in the title/subject that pictures are added as I cannot edit your original post.  Here is the updated post with pictures.  My posting bumped up your post to the top of the page so that will bring new lookers.

http://www.doll-fan.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=248841

Karen, I am very sure of my work and I, as well as my dolls, are very well known in the reborn industry.  I did not misrepresent Josiah in any way, have never had an issue with any of my dolls in the 6+ years I've been reborning and feel that this is the best I can do for you.  I am very sorry for your struggles and will keep you and your family in my prayers. 

All my best,
Debbie

Thank You, anyway Debbie.

God Bless~Karen

3/17/11

Debbie, I was so hoping that you would take Josiah back for the price that I paid for him. My sister has been a factory worker for over 20 years. She works seven days a week plus over time just to keep a roof over her head. She gets on the average 4 hours of sleep. The long hours and, heavy lifting has taken it's toll on her body. She was in the hospital last week in agonizing pain. They found that she has 5 fractured ribs and, a herniated Disc. Her husband left her 5 years ago. She cannot go back to work for at least 3 months if, ever. I was hoping that you would have a little compassion and help me to help my sister by taking Josiah back. I have already sold my engagement ring and a diamond tennis bracelet. What I got for them was an insult but, still, it was something. The money that I paid for Josiah would have helped more then I can tell you. I was sure that as a believer, you would have been a little more understanding. I would not have hesitated for a moment if, someone had asked the same of me. I guess that we are two different people. I am the one that will be praying for you!

3/18/11

Hi Debbie,

 I am sorry about the email that I wrote last night.

I am just really scared for my sister with her health issues and, how she is going to pay her rent to keep her apt. until, she can go back to work on "light" duty. She sees a specialist next week.

Would you consider taking Josiah back for $500.00?

I would never be begging like this but, I am desperate right now. She has tons of unpaid bills on top of everything else.

She is the only family that I have left. Please help me so that, I can help her.

Blessings~Karen

3/18/11

(sent out through my email account to all of my customers)

Hello everyone,
Recently my reborn, Josiah, sold to a lady I met at IDEX.  She has had some unfortunate circumstances come along and needs to find him a new mommy.  I am sending this email out as a courtesy to her.

Here is the link where she has him posted for sale.  You would be contacting her directly if you are interested in buying him:

http://www.doll-fan.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=248841

I have a full slide show of him on my website:

http://www.theynevergrowupnursery.com/recently-adopted.html

She is asking just $500 shipped for him which is an amazing deal on his category of reborn. 

Take care one and all!

--
Debbie
They Never Grow Up Nursery
    Where babies are babies...Forever!

3/20/11

Karen, I typically don't accept returns for many reasons but I do consider on a case by case basis.

What exactly do you mean by a case to case basis?

I told you that I did not like Josiah not to have to put my personal problems on you. That was probably a stupid thing to do.  Extreme Stress and desperation I suppose.

However, now that I have told you the truth  for why I needed to return him, I cannot understand, what "case" would you accept a return?

Once again, I am pleading with you Debbie to take Josiah back for a full refund. With God's help, things will get better and, I will be able to own one of your beautiful babies!

In Christian Love,

Karen

Hi Debbie,

Thank You, for helping me to try and sell Josiah on DF. I appreciate your help as, I could not do this myself. I just pray that someone will want to be his new mommy really soon.

Hugs~Karen

3/21/11

Hello Karen,
You are welcome.  I also sent out an email to my customers and have him on my website as well (with your Doll Fan post).  I am praying for a new mommy for him soon too.
Good luck!
Hugs,
Debbie

Hi Debbie,

I am going to appeal to you one more time and, beg you to take Josiah back for the original price I paid for him. My sister is back in the hospital for pain control and, loosing her apt. at the same time. The money for Josiah plus, added to the personal items that I've sold would be a great blessing to me. I could have him in the mail today and be able to leave for Vermont next week with enough money to pay some back rent and maybe, another two months. I also need to pay for my air fare there and, a rental car for the ten days that I am there. Can you please find it in your heart to do this for me and my sister?  I am at my witts end with worry.

Hugs~Karen

Hi Karen. 
You need to stop this.  I gave my answer and my answer stands, for very valid reasons. I am doing much more than most would do under the circumstances. 
I am sorry that things are rough for your sister and I will continue to pray for you and her.  Have you considered having her come to live with you for a while? 
Hugs,
Debbie

Debbie, did you not say that, there were some cases where you would take a baby back? I just do not understand why you do not see this as one of those cases. There is great need here! Why say what you cannot make good on? 

My sister is unable to travel in her condition and, needs to stay where here doctors are. There are also times when ( like now) that she needs to go into the hospital for a couple of days for pain control.  Have you no Mercy? She is all that I have left. I almost lost her twice in the past eight years.

I will not bother you again.

Karen

5/2/11

Hi Debbie, I just want you to know that little Josiah has been sold to Sally from DF. I lowered his price to $225.00. He really was a cutie. I think that she will be very pleased with her new little bundle.

Take Care~Karen

So, HAVE I been conned by Karen Dudin?  

NO, I have not because I did not allow her to con me.

I did not accept a return or refund her for the doll.

From the very beginning, I did not trust her original words to me.    

I AM a compassionate person and I DID consider taking Josiah back but the stronger sense in me, my passion to keep people honest, over-rode the thought of accepting him back.

I could not allow her to twist things around.  Had she told me from the beginning that her sister was in need, I would have understood and would have accepted him back with a full refund minus shipping.  But to attack my workmanship and the integrity of my faith first was detestable to me.  You don't do that to your fellow humans.

It is true that all a buyer has to to do on eBay is claim that the doll was not as described to receive a full refund (and many times, the buyer keeps the doll!) and I assumed the use of these words by Karen were meant to scare me and make me take the doll back without thinking.

But I do think and I do care about integrity.  

Karen's words in two different emails ( "With God's help, things will get better and, I will be able to own one of your beautiful babies!" and "He really was a cutie.") confirmed to me that I did the right thing in my case.

In the grand realm of things, this incident, although it had me frustrated for a few days, means not a whole lot of anything.   I held my ground and moved forward.

I will, however, be sharing this post on doll forums and FaceBook in order to clear up any confusion that has come since my name has been mentioned.

Sharing my "story" earlier/sooner may or may not have prevented a recent situation with this buyer.  I simply do not know, but it has confirmed to me to share even the little things in the future.

Whew, what a load off my chest!

Thanks for sitting through it with me. 

 

 

 

Nuttin' but mohair!

I know.  I'm boring this week.

I'm not working on dolls.

I have nothing of interest to share.

I'm just banding, washing, rinsing, combing, washing, rinsing, dying, washing, conditioning, combing and rinsing mohair!  GOBS of mohair!  

If you think YOU are bored.....

LOL 

Create-a-babies...CREATED! Coming soon....

I posted quite some time ago about the new 

Create-a-Babies business. 

Well, I saw these little cuties at the Down East Doll Show and got to thinking about a way to resolve fulfilling a request sent by many from my website.

So many people are looking for inexpensive "reborn" dolls.  

Although the Create-a-Babies don't have a lot of color, the sculpts are high quality and adorable, as are the eyes, wigs and outfits.  

I thought with a little enhancing...a bit more paint, some eye lashes and gloss along with more refined weighting throughout the doll, these charmers might fill a popular request at an affordable price.

So as soon as I get my first shipment and have some time to get a few ready, 

Create-a-Babies...CREATED!  Will be added to my website for immediate purchase.

I am quite certain this won't happen until after the Sauder Village Ohio show in August but it's exciting to think about it none-the-less.

In the meantime, it's mohair madness around the nursery!

XXOO

 

 

Sauder Village Doll and Teddy Bear Show

Annual Doll & Teddy Bear Show & Sale
at Sauder Village

Exhibit - Saturday & Sunday, August 4 & 5, 2012
Special Workshops & Events - August 1-5, 2012 

Doll lovers and collectors will enjoy browsing in Founder’s Hall as exhibitors share their antique dolls, original dolls, teddy bears, and modern collectibles as well as accessories, supplies, artist reproductions, clothing, doll furniture, books and patterns. Special guest artist Beverly Stoehr, will be at the Village for the weekend to sign dolls and talk with collectors. There will be workshops, lectures and other doll-themed activities throughout the weekend.
 

29th Annual Doll & Teddy Bear Show & Sale in Founder's Hall

Dates & Hours:
Saturday, August 4
10:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m.
Sunday, August 5
11:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m.

Admission:
Tickets into the Doll & Teddy Bear Show & Sale and entire Historic Village...
Adults - ^$15.00, Students (6-16) - ^$8.00  (Senior and AAA discounts apply)

Sharing my collection Friday...on Thursday??

Yes, on Thursday!  LOL

We are leaving the house early in the morning tomorrow

(to run for 6 hours so we can eat pancakes afterwards~crazy right???)

so I thought I'd take time to post the newest babies to my collection today.

Please meet two new mini OOAKs by Sharon Robinson Ullrich:

First is Deborah.

I kept walking by Sharon's table and this little one just kept calling me in.  Finally I stopped to take a closer peek and noticed that he name is Deborah, the same as mine.  How could I pass her by?

 

 

And Sharon gifted me with this precious little Bundle Baby who I named Amy:

 

 I am a very happy "mommy"!!!

Have a terrific weekend!

XXOO

End of the week of back to work

Today is my "Friday" and will end a 40 hour week, IF I decide to work all day  :)

There is a local rodeo calling my name...It's the 4th of July after all!  

Not working in the evenings has made me feel as if I didn't get anything accomplished this week, but I know in reality I did.  

I've got many ounces of mohair banded up with some of it washed.  

I prepped two new kits:  Saoirse by Bonnie Brown and Trinity by Lorna Miller Sands.

I've re-photographed prototype Nigel and sent her home.

I sent Noah John home. 

I'll be sending Amethyst home.

I've updated my website some.

I've purchased my flight to the show at Sauder Village and made ground transportation arrangements.

I've organized the supplies I brought home in my luggage but you would not know that as yesterday, three boxes arrived via UPS from NC with more babies and supplies.  I think I can get through those boxes before I head out for the rodeo...IF I in fact go.  

As far as the evenings and last weekend have gone: I've changed some of my personal dolls.

I've cleaned out flower gardens, planted new flowers, filled up the dog's pool and weeded the dog "kennel"  (that section of the back yard devoted to the dogs), gone on two fun runs out in the woods with my husband, step-son and some friends, and did many household chores~some of which have needed attention for a long time.

Ahhh...now that I see it all in black and white, I can say it's been a great and productive week!

Happy 4th of July!

My biography :)

Here is my "biography" exactly as I wrote it for the "magazine" I was told would be submitted to:  

Bio for Debbie Henshaw

They Never Grow Up Nursery

March 2012

Hello!  My name is Debbie Henshaw.  I am the reborn doll artist at

They Never Grow Up Nursery.  Where babies are babies…Forever! 

I am happily married to the love of my life and live in the small town of Baker City Oregon, in the United States.

Life has been an amazing journey and it seems that the journey will full circle in the end.  At least at this moment, as a 47 year old, this is how I see it.

Looking back, the formation of my life, what I would do with it and how it would “full circle” started when I was a little girl. 

As a little girl, I LOVED babies, baby dolls and every kind of baby item.  Sounds reasonable for a little girl doesn’t it? 

My mom managed apartments when I was in the 4^th-6^th grades.  Anything “baby” that was left behind she gave to me to play with.  That was such a delight to me!

I began babysitting when I was just 10 years old and remember that after I put the children and babies to sleep at night, I would “help” the working mom by sorting through the children’s and baby’s clothing, neatly folding them and placing them in the drawers.

In the 6^th grade, I was assigned to write and illustrate a book in an age group of my choosing.

My choice was for pre-school age children.  The story about a baby ant that was born sibling-less and lonely.  His parents loved him.  They had every type of baby item that was needed for his care and spent a great deal of time with him, yet the little ant remained lonely.

When he was three, his parents gave him siblings.  He was elated!  The parents multiplied the baby items needed for their growing family.  The moral of the story was patience…and I got to draw all kinds of baby things!   

I did not know it at the time but this book mattered in my Circle of Life.

I still have the book.

When I was in Jr. High, I worked for an elderly woman in her home.  Not only did she let me dress her live cat in baby clothes, she shared her amazing doll room with me!  It was then that I dreamed of having a doll room and collection myself.

My favorite subjects in high school were debate and public speaking. 

The high school years came and went.  I applied for college.  I desired to be a kindergarten assistant.  I was accepted and at the same time, also found out that I was expecting my second child.   My desire was stronger to be available for my growing family so I declined my acceptance.

I spent the next 20 years working part time at jobs that I loved, raising my kids as well as co-raising 3 step-kids. 

One day while shopping at Costco, a large, stuffed rabbit jumped into my cart.  (What???  YOU don’t have items jump into your cart when shopping???)  I had MORE fun dressing that rabbit up to amuse the kids!  They just about died of embarrassment the day I put him in “big boy underwear” and placed him in the cherry-wood high chair that was given to me as a house-warming gift.  “Buttons” soon became a family favorite.   I still have him…and the high chair.

My kids knew of my doll room/doll collection dream, and in 2002, when I was turning 38 years old, my youngest step-daughter gifted me with a manufactured Berenguer LaBaby baby doll~the first official doll in my collection.   She could not wait to give me that doll and I have loved her dearly!  I still have “Kara Ann” and our family has had a wonderful time with her.   I would pose her in whimsical ways that would capture the attention of the family and any visitors.

Soon though, I desired to have a baby boy doll in my collection.  I asked my husband for one that following Christmas.  He began his search on eBay.  Wow, were there ever a lot of choices and he was confused!  He asked me to help and it turns out, he was not the only one that was confused!  I was not familiar with all of the different types of materials that dolls were made of and we ended up choosing a 23” porcelain doll named Jamie.  I adore Jamie and still have him, even though he is not my favorite medium.

We added to my collection over the next several months adding Welcome Home Emily and Michael the Little Slugger from Ashton Drake.

And I kept looking at dolls on eBay, who knew there were so many dolls out there?!?!?  Due to the eBay browsing, I soon discovered the new art of reborn dolls!  I was intrigued and baffled about them at the same time!   I could not wrap my head around WHY people were taking these already beautiful dolls apart (like Emily, Micheal and my precious Kara) and changing them!

As the art progressed and the dolls became more life-like, I got it!  I studied every auction, every term, and every photo as well as researched everything I could find about reborning dolls.  I did this for well over 2 years as I was so mesmerized by it.  I had no intention of trying my hand at it but one day, it just occurred to me that I COULD try this.  With the prodding of a dear friend in the Philippines, They Never Grow Up Nursery was established in February of 2005, and the first two dolls began.   

It took me until the end of March to finish my first doll, Abby.  Although I was a skilled cake decorator for more than 20 years, I never painted anything but the walls in my house! I stripped her oil paint three times!  It was during all those strippings and re-doings that I began to develop what has become my trademark multi-dimensional skin tone layering.

I had purchased some mohair to root Abby’s hair with but it only took a few pokes of the needle to realize that what I bought was NOT quality hair as said to be.  I located a small angora farm just 60 miles from my home and have been purchasing hand selected hair from that farm ever since.  It took some time but I eventually became skilled enough with processing the hair that I now sell it all over the world to many top reborn and silicone doll artists.

Abby sold for $87.50 to a new mommy in Canada.  As much as I hated to part with her, the joy her “mommy” expressed when she received her spurred me onward.

 My next doll, Caleb, was even better than the Abby and I only had to strip him once! 

Even though my studies had helped me to quickly progress in the art, there are always new things to learn and try so one never really “arrives”.    Each day of my work is more exciting and passionate than the last and I have those things which I love…baby dolls, baby clothes and baby things around me at all times.  My personal collection exceeds 75 dolls now! 

At the time of this writing, I am in my 7^th year of reborning.  During the first two years of my adventure, I worked part time outside the home.  In November of 2007, I left the “work field” and have been running my reborning and mohair processing business full time ever since.   I’ve never worked harder, or longer, in my life!  But it brings great joy not only to me, but to my customers as well, making all the hard work worth it.   I have placed reborn babies all over the world and have met so many wonderful people in the industry from all over the world.  I’ve attended IDEX for 6 of the 7 years I have been involved in this amazing art and delight being with my all of my friends and peers once again.  Several of my customers have become my best friends.  I am so blessed!

I am an advocate for the reborn and doll art industry.  If there is scamming going on, I will call it out.  I do not tolerate back-biting and cattiness amongst artists and within groups.  I will speak out when I see someone being taken advantage of and I will always support and defend the artist and his/her means of living.  This must have come from my enjoyment with debate class in high school! 

In my spare moments, one of my greatest joys is writing pictures stories using my personal dolls as the subjects.  I share these online and in international doll magazines and have had more fun than is probably legal writing these stories!  I own and ride horses who have often found themselves involved in the picture stories as well.  Do you suppose my little book from the 6^th grade had anything to do with these stories?  How about dressing the cat up and staging “Buttons” the rabbit to amuse the kids?

It is my utmost delight to mention here that at the present time, I have three beautiful grand children.  Just last week, the oldest one sent me, via text message from her phone, her first self arranged picture stories!  That fully delighted me!  I posted them on my blog (www.theynevergrowupnursery.blogspot.com) as “Jena’s picture story #1 & 2.

My peers and the public have awarded me the title of “Master Artist”, to which I am most honored and work every day to live up to.  I’ve been awarded much recognition for my work including 2009 Tiny Treasures Reborn Baby of the Year and a 2009 Colliii nomination.  These days, it is difficult for me to compete in competitions, as I am so busy just trying to keep up with all of the other aspects of my reborning.  However, paying utmost attention to every fine detail, I strive in making each reborn baby an exceptional piece of artwork and an award winning creation!

I have had the thrilling honor of reborning prototype babies for so many amazing sculpting artists over the years few years.  I constantly have to pinch myself to assure that this has been really real!  Who me???

I have a huge passion for teaching the art (see…I did fulfill my desire to teach~I simply am not teaching kindergarteners!) and hold live classes all around the United States at show venues.  I dream of teaching internationally as well, and am tentatively planning on teaching and showing at the Peterborough show in the UK in October 2012.

I’ve taught several private, one-on-one full reborn courses in my home studio/nursery .

With the love of writing and passion for the doll art industry, I’ve been asked to write articles for several doll magazines.  The articles have ranged many different topics and have included reborning tutorials.

The production of my first Full Reborn Course DVD set is happening as I write this article!  This will be a great asset to those who cannot travel to the locations where I am teaching, and covers each and every reborn step from beginning to end.  It was my GREATEST honor to film this video in the studio of world-renowned porcelain doll artist, Dianna Effner as I taught her the reborn techniques on her first vinyl kit, Huggy Bear.    A great honor and a dream come true!  By the way, Dianna did an exceptional job on her reborn Huggy Bear.  Of course that is not too surprising, being the wonderful artist that she is.

The Reborning Course DVD set will be available from my website www.theynevergrowupnursery.com and also on my ArtFire selling site

http://www.artfire.com/ext/shop/studio/TheyNeverGrowUpNursery

where you can also find my premium acid dyed angora mohair and helpful LDC air dry paint color guides.

Be sure to check out my free LDC Air Dry paint tutorial on the Doll Dreams and Pupen-Traumland websites: 

http://www.dolldreams.net/

http://www.puppen-traumland.de/

My babies are available either on eBay under user ID redcar_99, on my website and at live shows across the US and hopefully abroad soon.

As I continue to reborn, teach, process mohair and share picture stories I know that someday I will need to retire from these things.  Well most of them anyway!  When I retire from my current work, I have decided that I will be writing picture stories for children using the dolls in my personal collection as the subjects.    My husbands questions as to why I do not do this already.  The answer…TIME!

So the babies, baby dolls and real baby items of so long ago did matter.  That little book did matter.  The dressing of the cat and the visits to the doll room did matter. Debate class did matter.  Desiring to teach did matter.  Amusing my kids with the big stuffed rabbit in underwear did matter.  Being a perfectionist in my cake-decorating career did matter.  Reborning has mattered and has had a place in my Circle of Life.  It has been the tape that secured the ends of that circle together.